The day I lost my virginity was dreadful lol and if I could take it all back and give myself advice on it I would say: completely express yourself to the guy you’ve been dating. Let him know that this is what you want and that you are nervous but willing. I think he might feel like any slight move on his part would be pushing you to do it. But it might be helpful if he makes the moves first and leads you into it. If he knows that your just having difficulty initiating but you really want to do it, then he can get the ball moving (pun?). It sounds like he is a stellar guy who respects your wishes and I think communication is key.

That being said “prepping” a circumstance almost always backfires and generally sets an awkward vibe. I say just let the tides roll. There is no “perfect” night. But when the time comes, don’t expect it to look like it does in the movies ahaha expectations ruins many first times instead just enjoy it and have fun! Im so excited for you though! keep me posted anon!